HOW TO OVERCOME SELF-DOUBT

“I seek strengths, not to be greater than other, but to fight my greatest enemy, the doubt within myself.”

 When you care about what everyone is thinking of you, you inhibit yourself.You would rather do nothing and get not judged, than to do something and risk criticism. Worrying about what other people may think will continue to hold you back from doing something potentially good for yourself.

“when I was little, usually, anytime I want to make a decision, I used to toggle with this self-limiting thoughts of what my parents would say of my decisions, until when I started being bold and strong enough to stick to my decisions even if they seemed to be opposing it. Since I know they're going to be happy with the outcome.”

 Getting, caught in a decision is another sure way to water the seed of self-doubt. It is very easy to get stuck in trying to make decisions. The care for indecisiveness Is decision already.

 Rainier Maria Rile says, “No feeling is final” and the same could be said of your decisions. Just make a decision and remodel along the way.

“Turning pro is a mindset. If we are struggling with fear, self-sabotage, procrastination, self-doubt, etc. the problem is, we are thinking like amateurs. Amateurs don't show up. amateurs crap out. Amateurs let adversity defeat them. The pro thinks differently. He shows up, he does his work, he keeps on truck-in', no matter what.”

 I am sure you have experienced a situation when somebody made your day. However, what if you are feeling low and uncomfortable no one is around to pick you up? There will always be one person left to help you, and that person left is you. Most importantly always do this, “whenever your inner doubts bubbles up, be quick enough to discourage it.

 In your mind say 'no, no, no', I am not going any longer”. Doing so, you disrupt the thought, and stop the inner self. People don't care about that much, what you do or say. When you worry about what other may think or say if you do something, then self-doubt will continue to grow stronger and you will certainly get stuck and end up underachievement.

“It was high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, 'always do what you are afraid to do.”

Overcoming your self-doubt need, you should be strong and straightforward at self-decision. You don't need to know whether someone is seeing you or not. Just get up bright and start walking with passion.

According the research I did some years back, I found that successful people have the ability to see setbacks as temporal. When you have a setback, it is easy to start doubting yourself. Simply see set-backs as something normal. That is something that happens whenever person attempt to take chance.

Remember that you're a failure because you failed. Understand that it happens to every man and not just only you. Sometimes, things go well and sometimes, things don't. So, don't make failure into your identity since it happens often to everybody.