WHY YOU SHOULD BE DOING ONLY THE THINGS THAT ADDS VALUE TO YOUR GOALS?

The most powerful words to use in this situation is: “I am reaching for my life success”. It is in me (wherever). Here it is.” However, slowly and steadily hand your replaceable, physical goods to the armed person who has the power to kill you. Small price to pay to continue living. I want to succeed in life… I read many self confident books and I will be confident while I was reading—my confident does not remain longer it slowly disappears—it remains for just a week—if not less, I  am searching in myself to know who I am—what was the reason I was born on earth.  I want to know the purpose of my existence on the earth...

However, success is different for everyone. some say it’s money, some say recognition, some say having lots of girls friends, some say having car and house, some say big salary etc. nevertheless, you don't know what you want that’s why you are asking this silly questions.

However, you do not know what you want that is why you are asking this silly question. You are searching your desire in books, which might not actually reflect exactly. First, list those things you want in life (very small to large and larger and largest).

Then design a solid plan to achieve every thing one by one by doing only the things that adds value to your plans. In summary, know what you want, plan how to do it, and just do it. All we need is slow but steady; you will see that you are getting successful slowly.

Always remember, success is not a destination. It’s a journey. You always keep going to bigger success in life. Success is within you. When you feel you have done it, you are successful. When you feel you have achieved it, you are successful.

So be happy and start action on your plans. Do you know what your career interest is? If you know the subject, confidence will follow. The more time you spend in your chosen field, the more confidence you will have. If you are interested in types of careers which will benefit humanity or science. Stay away from business because more than ever you will need to bamboozle everyone around you.

 You still need to know how to play the game, even in academics, but that’s just the same as learning social conventions and rules.

 Try never to insult anyone and never burn any bridges. Keep your "nose to the grindstone" and spend your free time learning everything you can about your chosen career. 

Take advantage of everyone and all opportunities...