In order to know the real
definition of existence—you must love yourself more than everything else. The saying, “we have to love ourselves first
before we can love anyone else.” Sounds wise hence, there’s a more to it.
However, For us to be in full
control of our own destiny and under-take self-responsibility in all things, we
must love ourselves first—when you start loving yourself more each day, it’s
amazing how your life will start being better and better. You will start to
feel inner relief and self-release. You will start getting everything you want.
You will get the job you want, the money
you need. Your relationship will improve. Moreover, every negativity in your
life will begin to reverse itself. Your life will change automatically.
For you to love yourself first,
you have to start today, accepting yourselves. Loving yourself begins with
accepting yourself— your flaws, insecurities and those things you can’t
personally stir… yourself.
Sometimes, people use to confuse accepting
“self” as approving or validating. No! Accepting yourself is realizing that
your non-acceptance will not change anything and thus could even be worse.
Therefore, accepting yourself is the most importance of all. When you start
accepting yourself, your flaws and insecurities, you take the boldest step towards
changing your life.
Life is a voyage of discovery. To
be enlightened is to go within and to know who and what we really are, and to
know what we have the ability to change for better by loving and taking care of
ourselves. All those people who you thought did not give the love we deserve—always
remind yourself of that feeling when you mess up other time. If there were
someone who truly loved you, how would he behave? Behave in the same way with
yourself—so many of us hide from ourselves and sometimes, we don’t even know
who we’re. We don’t know what we feel or
what we want.
However, it’s not selfish to love
ourselves. Rather it clears us so that we can love ourselves so well and enough
to love other people—it is necessary to not judge yourself, your feelings, and
your thoughts, because it brings self-hate. continue reading...
