Learning love to yourself is a
key ingredient for happiness also loving yourself is the greatest step to
change your life forever. We are in the midst of enormous individual and global
change I believe that all of us who’re living at this time choose to be here to
these changes, to bring about the changes, and to transform the world from the
way of life to a more loving and peaceful existence.
“The reward for conformity is that likes you but yourself.”
-Rita Mae Brown
The first step you are to take is
to start writing down all the things you like about yourself. Next step is to
let go of the thing you don’t like about yourself. As you do this move on to writing
a list of those things, you truly love about yourself.
Stop comparing yourself to
others. Of course, we know that there will always be someone better than us in
everything we do or achieve, however other people’s success are usually thrown
on our face. Furthermore, you should realize that their life isn’t all that
that sails.
Try to know yourself sometimes, spend time with yourself, and notice who you are and why you are unique. Once you learn how to love yourself when you are all alone. You will never be in a bad company. As the saying goes, “you can’t love someone you don’t know, that should as well resonate with you.
When I face death, I realize that
I actually cared if I live or died, I had to look at the person I was. I
realize that I would have either to love him or change him so I could love him.
Over the years, I made enough change that I could accept the person I was and
love him, despite all the wrong that were retain
I always focus on the things I
love to do. If I master one thing in life, I take it as better than learning about
a number of things.
“To be beautiful means to be yourself, you don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to be accepted by yourself.”
THICH NHAT HANH
The most important decision of
yourself, the one that will affect every other decision you make, is the
commitment to love and accept yourself. However, when you are greatly committed
to loving yourself, it will indirectly affect the quality of your
relationships, your work, your faith, and future.